Part 1: Why Fearing Mistakes Holds You Back And Is The Greatest Mistake Of All
Many people are afraid of making mistakes when they attempt to do something.
Some are so petrified of making a mistake that they are afraid of trying something new, afraid of expanding their skill set because they are afraid of doing it incorrectly and making a mistake.
They’re afraid of the embarrassment of making the mistake in front of others, and they’re afraid of possible ridicule they may experience from making that mistake in front of others.
However, allowing yourself to not try anything new, going through new experiences, and learning new skills is a recipe for holding you back from your greatest potential and is the greatest mistake of all that you can make.
When you shy away from trying anything new, you’re limiting your own potential and your own ability to handle things.
It also limits your ability to achieve accomplishments you set out to do, as well as limits you from achieving your best possible self.
Who knows what you can accomplish if you are willing to try new things.
You may learn you have an innate ability to produce something or handle something that could help the world.
However, if you are afraid to try an activity or two that involves this skill, you may never discover it.
The world at large will suffer because of your fear to try the new activity that could reveal your hidden skill.
Additionally, you are denying yourself of your true potential by being afraid of taking on new challenges and activities.
You think you are protecting yourself from fear, embarrassment, and ridicule by avoiding doing new tasks whenever possible, but in truth, you are just hiding behind the usual tasks you know you can do well because it’s safe and comfortable.
Virtually every great person has had to get out of their comfort zone to find out what they truly excel at and make their lives meaningful and great.
Sure, you can go life just doing the mundane tasks you know you can do well, but will that truly fulfil you.
Will you truly be happy?
Will you achieve your best ability by just doing the mundane tasks you know you can do well?
Very likely, you will not.
Unfortunately, you’ll never know your real self and your truest, highest potential if you don’t try new activities that expand your skill set and help you to grow as an individual.
Therefore, shying away from new activities out of fear, embarrassment, and/or ridicule is the greatest mistake you can make and the greatest obstacle to you reaching your truest, fullest potential.
Part 2: How Making Mistakes Helps You To Achieve Greatness
Virtually everyone wants to achieve greatness, whether it is something monumental that changes the world or just being the best person he/she can be and positively impacting the lives of the people he/she cares about.
However, achieving greatness isn’t easy, and it doesn’t come overnight. Learn how making mistakes can help you to achieve the greatness you are capable of.
You may be thinking, “How does making mistakes help me to achieve greatness? Mistakes are usually considered bad or undesirable; how can that lead to greatness?”
Mistakes are often considered bad or undesirable by most, but most also realize that they are virtually unavoidable; we are only human, after all, and human beings do make mistakes from time to time- no one is perfect.
When mistakes do occur, you need to learn why the mistake occurred and how to prevent it or similar mistakes from happening in the future.
Then, the mistake is worthwhile and can actually help you to achieve greatness.
This is because you know what you need to do to avoid such a mistake, thereby leading you to perform the actions you need to take in order to achieve your best work and to achieve the greatness you are capable of.
Mistakes are truly bad or undesirable when we repeat the same or similar mistakes over and over again, as we don’t learn from them.
As the old saying goes, “Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.”
This saying refers to the fact that mistakes are not the bad or undesirable element most make it out to be.
When we actually learn why it is a mistake and how it occurred, we can avoid it in the future. This is how mistakes can actually help you to achieve greatness.
Therefore, you should not see mistakes as something bad or undesirable, so long as you learn from the experience the first time a mistake occurs so that you can keep the same or similar mistakes from occurring again.
Take note of what the mistake is and how it occurred so that you can learn how to take actions necessary to keep the mistake from occurring again.
By learning the actions and skills necessary to prevent such a mistake from occurring again in the future, you are taking positive actions that improve your skill set and help you to achieve the greatness you are capable of achieving.